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173 – Trust, Love, and Rebuilding Society in the 80s

by Jill

Today, I’ll discuss the 80s apocalypse movie “Night of the Comet.” In this movie, we follow two sisters, Regina and Samantha, who survive an event that turns most of the population into zombie-like creatures. We’ll explore the important apocalypse themes that this movie raises, such as trust, the importance of loved ones, and the need to establish a plan for rebuilding society.

I’ll be highlighting several lessons that we can learn from it. Firstly, it emphasizes the importance of questioning information and not blindly trusting what others say even when they promise the North Pole (Christmas movie?). People in the movie were misled about the safety of the comet, leading to disastrous consequences. Secondly, the bond between the two sisters emphasizes the importance of finding and supporting loved ones during challenging times through sarcasm and shopping. Thirdly, the movie encourages the search for other survivors, as it brings together individuals who can provide support and companionship, mainly if they are cute boys. We’ll also discuss the need for defenses and strategies to protect oneself in a post-apocalyptic world, as seen in the 80s.

“Night of the Comet” is a cult classic combining horror, comedy, and 80s nostalgia. I invite you to ponder what rules and principles you would establish if you were to rebuild society after an apocalypse. Even at the end of the world, girls just want to have fuuuuun.

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087799/

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2023EpisodesHappiness

172 – Beyond What You Can Prove on 34th Street

by Jill

In this episode of our podcast, I talk about a movie that always reminds me of the magic of Christmas – “Miracle on 34th Street.” The movie tells the story of Macy’s store hiring a new Santa Claus, who is a kind and genuine person resembling Santa. As we follow the plot, we see how belief, mistrust, and the power of helping others during the Christmas season shape the story.

One of the central characters in the movie is Susan Walker, a young girl who initially doesn’t believe in Santa Claus due to her practical-minded mother’s influence. But as the movie progresses, Susan’s faith in Santa Claus is restored as she witnesses acts of kindness and experiences the magic of Christmas.

As the story unfolds, we also see a subplot involving a lawyer, Mr. Galley, who defends Kris Kringle (Santa Claus) in court, risking his own reputation and job. The court case becomes a turning point in the movie, as the post office delivers numerous letters addressed to Santa Claus to the courthouse, validating Kris Kringle’s existence. The judge dismisses the case, and Kris Kringle is set free.

The movie concludes with a heartwarming scene where Susan’s wish for a house is fulfilled, symbolizing the power of belief and the magic of Christmas. Watching this movie always leaves me feeling inspired and hopeful, reminding me of the importance of kindness, compassion, and the power of believing in something greater than what meets the eye.

As we approach the holiday season, I encourage all of you to embrace the spirit of Christmas, show kindness to those around you, and have hope for a better tomorrow. Merry Christmas, everyone!

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miracle_on_34th_Street

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2023Happiness

171 – Overcoming Limiting Beliefs

by Jill

Today, I talk to you about the book How to Be Your Own Therapist by Owen O’Kane and the importance of reprogramming our negative thoughts and challenging the rules we have set for ourselves. You and I are not victims of our thoughts and we have the power to break free from the negative narratives in our minds. By reprogramming ourselves and adopting new, more beneficial rules, we can overcome the limiting beliefs that hold us back.

Let’s prioritize our own well-being and engage with life authentically. Taking care of our physical and mental health, engaging in activities that bring us joy and calm, and surrounding ourselves with supportive people are essential for personal growth. I believe in being kind to ourselves and others, as well as prioritizing the needs of others without becoming people-pleasers.

Here are some practical strategies that can help us manage negative thoughts. I like to use grounding practices and tapping to distract my mind from negative spirals. By rewiring our reactions and focusing on an action plan, we can address triggers and create healthier habits. Reflecting on lessons learned and practicing gratitude can also contribute to our overall well-being.

Let’s take small steps towards self-improvement and be patient with ourselves throughout the process. Remember, setbacks and challenges are a normal part of life, but with perseverance and self-compassion, we can navigate through difficult times and find our way back to a positive path.

https://www.owenokane.com/the-books/
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2023Psychology

170 – The Importance of Self-Therapy and Reflection

by Jill

I discussed the importance of therapy and self-reflection in managing our emotions and improving our lives from the book How to Be Your Own Therapist by Owen O’Kane. Therapy and self-reflection can help us manage our emotions and improve our lives. When someone goes to therapy, they get to bounce ideas off of someone who is objective and can offer a different perspective. It’s beneficial in navigating through difficult emotions and experiences.

It’s particularly interesting how our childhood experiences impact our current emotions and beliefs. Our brains are wired to react quickly to protect us, but sometimes, this reactivity can be overdone, leading to negative emotions and thought patterns. By challenging automatic emotional responses and examining the core beliefs we have developed, we can work towards managing our perfectionism and cultivating kindness towards ourselves.

Understanding your core beliefs is key in helping to address and reshape them. Through self-therapy, you can better understand my past experiences and how they influence current thoughts and behaviors. By reflecting on your life story, acknowledging both positive and negative events, and sharing experiences with a supportive listener, you can reframe your perspectives and find hope for the future.

Ultimately, while self-therapy can be a valuable tool, you can learn that you are the solution to your problems. It requires a commitment to self-reflection, patience, and a willingness to challenge and change your patterns of thinking and reacting. By taking small steps towards self-understanding and embracing the self-therapy process, you can work towards leading a happier, more fulfilling life.

https://www.owenokane.com/the-books/
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2023Health

169 – The Importance of Intentional Rest

by Jill

I dive into the concept of rest and how it’s often mistaken for laziness. With everything going on in the world right now, it’s no wonder that so many of us are feeling exhausted and drained. But don’t worry, we’ve got you covered! We’ll be discussing all sorts of ways to find rest and recharge, so that you can tackle your day-to-day responsibilities with renewed energy and focus.

First off, let’s talk about the most obvious form of rest: sleep! Whether it’s taking a nap or hitting the hay early, getting some shut-eye is crucial for our overall well-being. But intentional rest can take on many forms, and what works for one person may not work for another. Different types of rest and how they can be beneficial for different people.

For example, have you ever tried guided imagery or meditation? It can be a great way to calm your mind and recharge your batteries. We’ll be sharing some personal experiences with creating mental images of peaceful scenes, like walking on a beach or through a rainforest.

But rest isn’t just about sitting still and doing nothing. Sometimes, it’s about engaging in activities that bring us joy and fulfillment. We’ll be talking about things like going for a walk in nature, listening to music, spending time with pets, or taking a hot bath – all great ways to relax and recharge. Finding time with friends at either random fun or scheduled events is a fun way to relax.

Of course, it’s important to remember that rest should refocus and reenergize us, not demotivate us or cause procrastination. We’ll be discussing how to find that balance, and encouraging listeners to be mindful of the difference between rest and laziness. Rest should have a purpose and help us tackle our goals with renewed inspiration and motivation.

So, if you’re feeling burnt out and in need of some rest, tune in to today’s episode. We’ll be sharing all sorts of tips and tricks for finding rest that works for you. And remember, taking the time to recharge is crucial for your overall well-being and productivity.

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2023Goals

168 – Embracing the Power of Decision-Making

by Jill

Today, talk about something crucial to achieving success in life: making decisions. Even deciding not to make a decision is still a decision, and it can lead to missed opportunities and a feeling of stagnation. That’s why it’s better to make wrong decisions and learn from them than remain indecisive and not move forward. Indecision can prevent personal growth, limit advancement, and hinder the pursuit of happiness.

I know that decision-making can be tough. It can be difficult to choose between options and fear making the wrong choice. But I’ve learned that taking action is the key to overcoming indecision. By setting goals, breaking them down into smaller steps, and seeking advice and research, we can make informed decisions that align with our aspirations. And it’s important to be kind to ourselves throughout the process and manage stress and anxiety.

Making decisions not only shapes our lives but also influences how others perceive us. Being decisive portrays confidence, self-trust, and a sense of direction. And the best part? Decision-making is an ongoing journey. We may face setbacks and rejections, but it’s crucial to remain committed to our goals and learn from our experiences. By taking action, we become more confident, productive, and capable of building fulfilling relationships. Remember, having a decision firmly in our grasp starts with taking small steps.

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2023Work

167 – Taking the Extra Step for Excellence

by Jill

I talk about the importance of going above and beyond personally and professionally. I share an idea from Napoleon Hill’s book to highlight the benefits of going the extra mile and encourage listeners like you to make additional efforts and exceed expectations consistently.

In today’s society, many individuals only do the bare minimum. However, I believe that additional efforts can positively impact one’s reputation and opportunities for growth. By focusing on what a boss dislikes doing and taking on those tasks with excellence, you can become indispensable in the workplace.

Going the extra mile is not about working longer hours, but rather about adding an extra touch of quality and care to my work. Going the extra mile extends beyond professional settings and you can find ways to make a difference in your personal relationships by doing small acts of kindness and going above and beyond for others.

I believe that serving and helping others can bring positivity and fulfillment to our lives. Overall, we explore the philosophy of going above and beyond in various aspects of life. I hope to inspire you to become the kind of person who consistently exceeds expectations and brings value to others.

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2023Psychology

166 – Turning Regrets into Opportunities

by Jill

We explore the topic of regrets and how we can deal with them in a positive and constructive way. One of the key things we discuss is reframing regrets and finding silver linings. Even when things don’t go as planned, there are often positive aspects to be acknowledged. The concept of “at least” moments, can help us shift our perspective and focus on the good in a situation.

Another important strategy is self-compassion. It’s so important that we treat ourselves with the same kindness we would offer a friend. The idea of self-distancing can help us analyze our regrets from a third-person perspective and gain better insights for the future.

So, how can we use our regrets as catalysts for personal growth and improvement? We discuss the value of failure resumes, which serve as inventories of lessons learned from past mistakes. The importance of matching regrets with resolutions and adopting a journey mindset, viewing life as an adventure with ups and downs.

This episode provides you with practical strategies and perspectives to help you navigate and overcome your regrets in a positive and constructive way. Remember, it’s okay to make mistakes, and not everything will go perfectly. Let’s make peace with our regrets and focus on maximizing our important decisions.

https://www.danpink.com/the-power-of-regret/
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2023Happiness

165 – How Looking Backward Moves Us Forward

by Jill

In this episode, I delve into the topic of regrets and their impact on our lives. I talk about the book The Power of Regrets, How Looking Backward Moves Us Forward, by Daniel H. Pink. He draws on insights from a researcher who conducted a World Regret Survey, which classified regrets into four types: foundation regrets, boldness regrets, moral regrets, and connection regrets. My own regrets and experiences helped shape who I am today. The importance of learning from regrets and using them as a catalyst for future growth.

I discuss three different approaches to dealing with feelings: expressing them openly, burying them, or using them for better thinking. I believe that the latter approach can help us make better decisions and understand ourselves better. Furthermore, regrets can add meaning to our lives, contrasting and enriching our experiences. Embrace their regrets as part of their personal stories and use them for growth.

There are different types of regrets that people commonly have, such as relationship regrets for women and career regrets for men. Also, there are distinguishing characteristics between regrets of inaction and regrets of action, noting that regrets of inaction tend to resonate more strongly with people as they age. Reflect on how you handle regrets and categorize your regrets to gain a better understanding of their impact.

https://www.danpink.com/the-power-of-regret/
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2023Tools

164 – Using the Tools of the Creative

by Jill

Today, we will explore the concept of creativity and how it applies to our everyday lives. I’ll be sharing some insights from Adam Savage’s book, “Every Tool is a Hammer”, as well as my own experiences with podcasting and project management.

First up, let’s talk about the power of deadlines. As creators, we all have unique ways of expressing ourselves, but sometimes we need a little push to make decisions and move forward. That’s where deadlines come in – they can help us prioritize and fine-tune what’s truly important in our projects. I’ll be sharing some tips on how to set effective deadlines and how they’ve helped me improve my own work.

Next, we’ll delve into the world of project management and diagramming. Even if you’re not a natural artist, there are plenty of tools and apps available to help you create diagrams and visualize your work. I’ll be sharing my own experience with using Visio to diagram a project plan at work, and how it helped us identify a crucial gap in our process.

Then, we’ll explore the concept of learning by iterations. It’s all about understanding that the first few attempts at something may not be perfect, but each attempt gets us closer to perfection. Embrace the journey of creativity, even when it doesn’t go as planned. Sometimes, the most joy comes from the unexpected turns in our creative journey.

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